Monday, January 9, 2012

Football at It's Best

I know, most of you aren't football fans and, if you are, you don't follow the Denver Broncos.

Doesn't matter.

The Broncos pulled off one of the biggest upsets in professional sports last night when they beat the Steelers in overtime.

What a game!

And I didn't get to see it...

We were at a birthday party for a really good friend. Anyone else and I would have stayed home and watched the game.

One of the big changes in our lives are the number of social engagements that we attend in paradise.

In Colorado, we might go out to dinner or a party 4 times a year. Here, we are out probably 60 to 80 times a year.

What happened?

Well, the obvious thing is that we are retired and have a lot of time on our hands. But it is more. This community is special. There is a sense of relationship that is rare, and precious.

It can be traced back to 2 very special people who I have written about in the past.

Amazing that one or two individuals can have such a big impact on a community.

So, there I sat before the game, debating on what I was going to do. Watch the game or attend the birthday party.

Back and forth, back and forth, back and forth.

Finally, the value of being related won out.

And I missed watching the game of the decade.

That's alright. I got to see the video clips of the best plays and I spent 2 hours reading about the game on the internet.

The party was worth it...in a quiet, warm, close way...the best way...it was not a loud, screaming at one another party...just 6 people having a wonderful time.

And, I felt like I was at the game by reading all about it the next day.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

The Wise Choice.

Tom, I think I remember every bit of time we spent together - and almost nothing about any TV or Sport Games, unless they were Shared. (I do, however, remember certain explicit porn images, and, also anytime when I was unfairly treated by anyone... or..) just having a little fun, because I was starting to get 'mushy' there.... Love, Darshan

bullseye said...

Thanks, Darshan. I have selective memory too.

Many wonderful times hanging out. And some memorable times at seminars and workshops. Have fun in India!

Love, Tom